Casual dating is all about experimenting. You have been dating your partner for several months, and now you want to go one step further, expanding your sexual territory to spice things up. A really good option to boost your sex life is to join a club for swingers. However, keep in mind that casual encounters with strangers may not be the best cup of tea for everyone.
The first thing you need to do is to make sure both of you are in the same boat. Once you agree that this is what you want, keep in mind the following guide, which is aimed at couples trying swinging for the first time.
#Set the conditions with your partner
Even before researching, and joining a good swinging club, you should set some norms with your partner. In such case, being in an open relationship not necessarily gives you freedom to do anything you sexually want. You should consider certain aspects like what is permitted, and what not. Some couples just want to watch or be watched, and others prefer to go all the way. It is better to decide in advance. Remember to also leave jealousy to one side. The idea is to have fun!
#The appropriate place
Where you should start looking for another couple? There are many places where you can find couples ready for partner swapping.
Websites like Redhotpie, one of Australia’s best casual dating platforms, are experts in sponsoring events for swingers.
There are events, and meetings for all tastes. You can try a diverse come play event or a fetish party where you can meet other couples interested in the same erotic games, and who have the same sexual preferences.
#Swinging rules
Keep in mind that every event or every swinging club has its own rules. In some places you just need to approach, and start talking to a couple that grabbed your attention, and in others, people use specific codes like wristbands from different colours that determine what a particular couple is looking for: a male, a female, another couple, etc. Check this out in the club’s website.
The last rule: enjoy yourselves!
