Flirting with a woman you have met on a casual dating site is relatively easy if you are that kind of silver-tongued Casanova who is able to manage leaving boring standard introductory questions to one side, and can easily create real amazing conversations, discovering your match best secrets, with just a few right-to-the-point icebreakers.
However, going to the next level, and start talking dirty to your date or even your partner, is something that not everybody is an expert on.
Here we give you some tips to master your dirty talk, and that would make your date/long-time lover craving for it again, and again!
Be natural
If you have not tried dirty talking before, keep in mind that, as any other aspect related to sex, the first you need to consider is to be honest. Remember that, as happens with faking an orgasm for example, it will be very noticeable, and awkward if you are not feeling it!
You are not an actor or porn star, so keep it natural! Do not be shy either, just be yourself, and start experimenting!
Maybe you will not be a dirty talk expert in your first attempt, but what matters is to know if your partner liked it, and if it really turned her on, and of course, keep working on it.
In time, you both probably will have left nerves behind, and have built enough confidence, that you won’t notice that it is something that already belongs to your sex routine.
Do not be rude!
Every person loves different things in bed, so keep in mind that you need to find the right words to say when getting intimate.
The idea is to increase sexual tension by saying what you are thinking, feeling, what you exactly want to do to your partner, and what you expect from her, and, in that way, make her sexually arouse, but, under any circumstances, use derogatory words.
You have to find a balance between a dirty talk, and nasty comments. Whisper in her ear those two or three key words to let her know how you like her, that you are really enjoying it, find out if she is loving it too, and a good idea is to tell her that you want to do it all night long.
Some women love men to dominate. You can give free rein to your sexual creativity here, and even take the lead, but do not get too bossy with her, tell her to get silent or be demeaning. It could be a real turn off. Honesty is core, but there is no need to tell her in the face if she is doing something you do not like. Instead, you can always subtly say to her what you want her do to you. Suggest naughtily, and experiment!
