The dating game has changed over the years. Nowadays, singles can easily land a one-night stand by joining a dating site for sporadic encounters.
Nonetheless, many single men still prefer traditional dating: go to a nightclub, approach a woman who seems to be the perfect bedtime companion for a single night, and pray to win her attention.
One of the main dilemmas about nightclub dating is that it is very complicated to find out if the woman you fancy is looking for a casual adventure as well.
Seducing a lady in a bar or a club requires confidence, charm and a cheeky attitude, but even you try so hard, and give it all, sometime a single move at the wrong moment can put her away.
If you want to nail the mastery of love, make sure you do not make any of the following seduction mistakes:
Dating mistake 1: Not reading the signs
You are on the dancefloor, and see an attractive woman. Do you make a move impulsively? It may work in exceptional situations, but it is not the greatest idea.
You would need to discreetly observe her for a little while, and try to analyse the way she behaves: is she simply having fun with her friends or perhaps is she looking to meet a new guy!
Create flirty occasions. It is time to play the gazing game. Make eye contact, and give your best smile. If she sends some signals: she basically is making eyes at you, then do not hesitate to make your move towards her.
All you need to do is to read her signs!
Dating mistake 2: Being obscene, instead of flirty!
Introducing yourself to a woman in a nightclub for the first time is a delicate task. The last thing you want may be to initiate a serious relationship, but you cannot tell straight away that you want to hook-up.
Many men think that if a woman wants to enjoy a single night of passion, she can be seduced by being obscene or too explicit with her.
You have to learn the difference between being flirty or even showing your naughty side, and saying rude things.
The best is to add some humour, and be nice when you approach to her. Then, gradually build some sexual tension. If she is responding positively, then ask her to go to quieter place to get to know each other better. And voilà!
Dating mistake 3: Not being confident enough to seduce
Confidence is a trait that all women look in a man, even if they do not want you to have a relationship after your intimate encounter.
If you look self-reliant, and decisive when getting closer to her, she will immediately interpret that you are a guy who loves to take the lead in every aspect, including when you are under the sheets.
This will make you a little bit more irresistible!
However, do not confuse confidence with arrogance. If you go for a pretentious attitude, you will probably not go anywhere. The key is to be charming, and a bit flirty!
If you avoid these dating mistakes, you will have more chances to score!
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