In the era where you can have a partner for the night à la carte, you may think that the word “love” does not fit in this territory, but there have been cases where some singles unintentionally have fallen in love with their casual match after a few encounters.
The unwritten rule number one of the casual dating guide stipulates that keeping your relationship uncommitted is a must!
However, do you think that your casual match is starting to have feelings for you? Here are the signs that show that he is more into you than expected.
He chats with you everyday
Some singles join casual dating platforms with the idea to find several lovers. They simply want to enjoy new experiences with different sex partners.
Others want to find another dater who shares the same erotic fantasies, and expect to initiate a physical relationship that lasts longer than a single night, but that does not require a further commitment from either side. They can be casually dating for weeks or even months!
Going for the second option may be a bit risky as the chances of getting feelings mixed are higher.
If your casual lover is sending your messages on a daily basis, and takes any opportunity to talk with you, it may be a sign that he is interested in dating you more seriously, rather than keeping your relationship as a fling!
He makes plans outside the bedroom
Casual dating is manly about dedicating time to meet other liberated singles who want to get intimate at the first opportunity!
You can explore your playful side online by engaging on a dirty chat with a stranger or enjoy a steamy encounter offline, but if your casual match insists on having other plans that do not involve physical intimacy, and that sound more like a regular date, then he may be seeing you as potential partner rather than a temporary sex mate.
He wants to meet your friends
One of the advantages of hooking up with someone you have met on a dating site or a nightclub is that you do need to mandatorily invite him to be part of your social circle. So, if after several weeks of spicy encounters, your casual match proposes you to have a more conventional meet-up that does not involve having sex, and suggests you to meet with some friends, then he is expecting to turn your casual relationship into a serious one!
What should you do if you want to keep things casual, and your temporary partner does not?
The best would be to set things clear from the start, and tell him that your intention is to enjoy your singledom, that you do not seek to be romantically attached to someone in particular.
If you come to a point where feelings from one side are mixed, the best is to politely part ways, and give yourself time to look for the right casual partner!
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