Easy steps to get women to sleep with you on a first date
Last Update : 31 May 2018
A lot of people think that romance is overrated or even outdated. Many Aussies singles nowadays prefer to connect with other attractive guys, and girls with the intention to simply have fun, and enjoy a casual affair, leaving corny love stories behind.
There are many opportunities out there to enjoy your singledom. You can find loads of good-looking women on night clubs. Thanks to adult dating websites, you can also meet your perfect casual partner within minutes.
However, jumping into bed on a first date is another story. It is a real challenge.
Know where to look for your casual match
Dating in a club can be a good choice if you like the idea of bringing out your old-school flirting techniques: creating eye contact, using your dance moves to approach a girl who grabs your attention, using your charm, and wit to seduce her, and create desire and when the opportunity comes, subtly suggest to go somewhere private, not noisy, to know each other a little bit more.
If you are a man of action, the nightclub dating scene is the way to go, but it is harsh one too! Very often, men end up being (and feeling) rejected because they have not approached the right woman.
Casual dating sites have come to the rescue. Now it is easier to find, and easily connect with single women seeking a no-strings attached adventure with a guy just like you! Your job will be to simply describe your erotic needs, and search for naughty women playing in the same field as you.
Know how to approach women
The first lesson you should learn about the seduction game is to know how to approach, and speak to women, especially if your intention get laid on your first date.
The way you flirt with naughty women online may differ from the way you do it offline, but the goal is the same: to be the most charming guy in the place, and, of course, finally, beat your competitors, and get a real date.
The first step is to observe how she behaves. If you are using a dating platform, make sure you read her profile in detail to have an initial perception about who she is, what sexual preferences she has, and what kind of men she is looking for to make her steamy dreams come true.
Once you have introduced yourself, basically get in her mind by carefully listening to what she says. Read her signs to know if she is really interested in getting physical with you, and in the case of approaching her when in a night club, take also the opportunity to read her body language.
Know how to talk to women
A great conquer, requires a great conversation. Casual daters are more flexible, direct and laid-back than those hopeless romantic daters in the search for a serious relationship, so the communication -what you say, how you say it, and when- should also remain informal.
The idea is to avoid being too explicit in the first minutes (unless she craves for it), and then increase sexual tension little by little. Being suggestive is everything! Take any chance to sexualize the situation.
If she is not responding positively to your enticing messages, do not insist, she may be looking for something different. Instead, start searching for one that can potentially sexually connect with you. Finding the right casual partner takes some time, so keep you mind open, and connect with those women who you think may be perfect for jumping into bed with you.
Know how to suggest a woman to get intimate on a first date
The good news about searching for a naughty partner for one night in a casual dating site is that the all the women you will find there are looking for an opportunity to flirt, play or enjoy kinky sex with other single men. So, in that way, your job is halfway done.
Once you find a potential lover online, as soon as you have the opportunity, be open about seeing each other offline, and having an intimate encounter.
Keep your first date casual. You can start by making some compliments. Then, entice her with some suggestive comments, and when getting closer, and closer, do not hesitate to make a move. To ensure that you seal the deal that night, make sure that you choose the right moment to whisper her that it would be amazing to spend the night with her. Get ready to play the seduction game!