How to flirt at a nightclub to drive men crazy
Last Update : 16 January 2018
Mastering the art of flirting it is not easy. Traditionally, men were the ones responsible of approaching single women in pubs, and discotheques, bringing out their seduction tricks to impress the one that really caught their attention, and took all the courage to ask out the lady in question.
In the past years, the roles have slightly changed, and now more women take the initiative, and make the first move when they casually date in a nightclub.
Making sure that a gorgeous guy reads your flirting signs when you are out in a club can be a really harsh task. There are, however, some universal seduction tricks that can easy you the path to get a date with him.
Grab his attention, and approach him
The first thing you need to do when you find your object of desire, it is to plan your seduction strategy. You goal is to approach him, and get a casual date (or a spontaneous dirty encounter), but you first need get yourself noticed by your crush. You can always use the excuse of a deliberate accident where you “unintentionally” -in fact it is on purpose- brush against him when you are dancing in the dancefloor or walk past him.
But, if you prefer to connect in a more natural way, you can start by walking close to him repeatedly, and make sure you are in his visual space. Then you can make eye contact to completely grab his attention. Just play the innocent staring game. Bring out your best smile, and stare at him seductively, bat your eyelashes, but do it moderately, after all, you do not want to disturb him. When he looks at you, wait a few seconds, then look away, and repeat the move. Try this several times to make sure he is also attracted to you.
Undoubtedly, it is a good way to initiate contact. If you think that he is responsive, you can try to approach him naturally, and when there is a situation when you can get closer to each other without his group of friends, you can introduce yourself, and start talking with him.
You can break the ice with a joke or an innocent question, and then keep the conversation flowing by asking him about his interests. Then, gradually increase sexual tension between you two.
Be a bit playful, and tease him with some provocative, but non-vulgar, questions, and gestures.
Subtly invade his personal space, and start seducing him
Once you have laid the first stone, and you already are engaged in an interesting conversation, get ready to bring out your best seduction tricks to make him completely fall for you!
Keep staring him intensely, and once in a while draw his attention to your lips. It is commonly known that if someone deeply looks to your lips repeatedly, it means he/she really wants to kiss you. So, once in a while, touch your lips with your fingers, or play with your cocktail’s straw. Create situations to make him think you want to be kissed!
Another innocent way to show a single guy that you are sexually interested in him is by playing with your hair. Twirling your hair may look like a naive gesture, but definitely it is very seducing. A coquettish move!
Body language undoubtedly plays a key role when it comes to flirting with men in a nightclub, or any other dating scenario. There is one old-school unspoken seduction trick that suggests that by imitating your (potential) date’s movements you are trying to gains his/her attention. So, when unconsciously (and, sometimes consciously) you mirror your potential casual partner’s body moves, for example, in the way he sits or the way he puts his arms, you are sending him a very clear message: you want him really bad!
The moment of truth comes when you subtly try to enter into his personal space. Getting closer to someone you do not know very much is tricky, so you have to think about how to do it, and select the right moment to do so.
Close contact breeds affection, so if he has responded to your previous flirtatious moves, and you sense that there is chemistry between you two, you can start by “accidentally” touching his leg or use a standard excuse like complementing his body figure, suggesting he is muscly, and take the opportunity to respectfully touch his arm. Subtle physical contact is a very good way to entice each other, and great way to start getting intimate.
If the response is positive, and you see he is in the mood for having adult fun, you can take the lead, in case he does not, and suggest going to a quieter place to unleash your passion!