Sexting: How to send the perfect sext
Last Update : 30 November 2017
New technologies have had a huge impact on the way people communicate with each other, and it has also had an influence on the way people sexually behave. Sex, and technology have always been connected. It was not too long after the appearance of laptops, and mobile phones, that people started using them to explore their sexual boundaries.
Nowadays, people of all ages use sexting in order to spice up their private life a little bit. That’s probably one of the most exciting tools that Aussie hookup sites have developed!
Sending the perfect sext, however is not something that everyone can achieve easily. If you want to be an expert in sexting you should consider certain dos, and don’ts, if you do not want to end up embarrassing yourself or driving your partner/date away.
Dos
Set the scene
In order to have an unforgettable sexting experience, keep in mind that what to text it is as important as the way you start doing so. You have to make sure that your partner/date is in the same page, and the best way to do it is by setting up the scene. Start slowly, and naturally conduct your conversation, little by little, to explicit territories. Do not rush things up! In case that you also want to send hot pictures of yourself, make sure to tidy your room first – a messy room can distract your partner/date- and also smarten up to make sure you appear as sexy as possible in the photo.
Tease, be suggestive & sensual
Choose your words/pictures wisely! Sometimes entices more a text/photo that is suggestive than one that is completely explicit. The idea is to build sexual tension between you two, and give some room for your imagination. Avoid showing, and giving everything too soon! Play it cool, and let your lover crave for it (at least in the first minutes)!
Keep it active
Seduce your partner with words! You obviously do not need to say the first thing that comes to your mind, but make sure the conversation flows. Create, and increase desire. Try to not spend too much time on messaging your lover back, and when you do, be concise, and straight to the point. Go for short messages, and subtly tell your partner/date which your sexual fantasies are, and what thing you want to do to him/her, and vice versa.
Depending on the occasion, you can even use acronyms to shorten the messages. You would then have to learn the sexdating slang. You for example can use: TDTM = Talk dirty to me; GYPO = Get your pants off; NIFOC = Nude in front of the computer or IWSN = I want sex now.
Double check your message before sending it
Sometimes with the rush of the emotion, you may be a little bit unfocused on what is happening in your mobile, so before sending your dirty message or hot picture, make sure by checking twice that you are writing/sending your material to the right person. Imagine how embarrassing could be if your message is delivered to your mom or that WhatsApp group where all of your old school mates are united!
Erase your sexting history
A romantic trip, a wild party with your best friends, a family dinner, all these moments are good to remember, and it is nice to capture them with photos to “revisit” them in the future, saving your sexting history is not! Once your sexting session finishes, the wisest thing to do is to delete all the threads because you never know if your mobile phone will end up in the wrong hands.
Don’ts
Show your face or any personal marks
If you trust the person you are sexting, he/she is your long-time partner for example, you probably do no need to worry to text him/her some full-body sexy pictures of you; but if you are sending erotic texts, and photos to someone you do not know very well, a hot guy/girl you just have met on a casual date for example, just play it safe, and send photos where your face is not visible. Make also sure that in the picture there are not marks that can easily identify you like birthmarks or tattoos.
Use emojis
Using emojis while having a mobile chat that is focused on sex can be a real turn off! It looks a bit childish. You can use them in any other conversation, but sexdating is about being playful in a naughty adult way. Instead, as mentioned previously, if you want to get visual, simply share some sexy shots!
Sext when you are drunk
Many people when are drunk, tend to lose their inhibitions, but despite that a few drinks can give you the enough courage to take out your kinky side out of the closet, it really is not a very good idea. You can end up saying rude things, behaving weirdly or even worse, doing it, and not remembering it afterwards! Being sober will make the experience more pleasant!
If you put into practice the examples of this guide, you will ensure that your sexting becomes one of your favourite sexual games!